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Status: Friends Lang Talaga! (Escaping the zone)

by Jasper Noel Barba

You’re in love but the object of your affection thinks of you as more of a big brother than anything else that hurts dude. Why does it happen? Maybe the girl is scared of entering the second level of a relationship the most romantic one, maybe she’s in love with another guy or maybe you’re not just his type of guy “you suck” loser. But it is not the end of the world for us bros, I myself experience that many times and how do a hot guy like me get along from the zone? Well I do accept the reality of the situation that we don’t fit with each other.

Don’t withdraw yourself, it is much better if you start putting less focus on her and more focus on you at this stage of the process.

Here’s the thing dude you shouldn’t put all your eggs in one basket why? There are many fishes in the sea, we should be humble and playful with these fishes use your head not your heart. Start meeting some people your friends have friends who have friends of their own work different social circles. Meet girls and learn how to flirt well. Ironically, the more women you meet, the better you will do with the girl you’re trying to escape the friend zone with.

Make yourself out of it dude always put into your mind there is no single person in this world that can’t use a touch of self-improvement. Learn something new get those adrenalines pumping through your veins you’ll feel much better about yourself and gain more self-confidence. Just enjoy yourself, ika nga sa kasabihan eh “Experience is the best teacher”

As Master idol Ramon Bautista says: there’s more to life than love

Source: http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_150/162b_dating_advice.html

After Break-Up Management

by Fil-maur Nacion

Love is the most profound emotion known to human beings. For most people, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element in their lives. But the ability to have a healthy and loving relationship is not inborn. And in reality it really “ends”. When that time comes, what are you suppose to do bro? Cry, kill yourself or move on?

Just when you thought that the person on your wallpaper is just “wallpaper”, and you realize that as of last night you are now back to saying the words, “Table for one, please”, you’re single. But wait, before you go throwing your cell phone out of the window or doing something that you will soon regret, remember that there are ways to handle things properly. And here it goes dude.

First of all let’s establish one key point here, no matter how cheesy it sounds, you will fall in love again, TRUST me. I don’t care if your previous girlfriend was in FHM’s 100 sexiest women or the cover of Playboy magazine, you will go on.

First, I know, you thought you relationship would last forever and she said she had never met someone like you before. And I know, you made plans for next summer already. And basically, all was happiness until the lethal words “It’s not working out” were said and your heart dropped ten floors below or even fifteen.

Once you find out the relationship is over, the proper thing to do is say goodbye and be on your way. Impossible? Why should I do this? One, do you really want to convince them not to abandon you? No! They have already made up their mind. And two, there are many fish in the sea, go and get one.

Second, don’t sit around and wait, assuming they are coming back. I don’t want to say that people can’t break up and get back together, I don’t! But you have to set your mind that this part of your life is just another closed chapter in your long romantic history. I’m saying this because you can’t always assume that time will make someone change. And its quiet impossible to even try to change someone just for your own gain, right?

Lastly, the best medicine to being dumped is to bounce back with vengeance, with an even better you. I know we’re awesome but everyone can still improve, everyone can make themselves a better person when faced with something tragic in their lives. Sometimes a life-changing event is a slap on the back of the head that says, “Show them what you've got!” That is a sign of a mature adult that you are. Make her realize that it is her lose not yours. Stand up and show everyone that “I’m back, let the games begin”

SOURCES: 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/relationships 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/loves-evolver/201012/breakup-etiquette-what-not-do

http://daily.swarthmore.edu/2011/03/04/breakup-etiquette/

DEFINE:POGI

by Cedric Joshua Martinez

Handsome, Beau, Gut aussehend, Bello, Guapo, POGI. All these words have but one meaning that has already been lost in time. Today, being POGI means having a handsome face. But we bros need to think, was it always like this? As to what our dear bro Heraclitus once said, change is the only constant. Everything changes, even the definition of POGI. It is sad to think that a lot of women (especially the young ones) determine if one is POGI or not by only looking at one’s face.

It is not just the face, the appeal nor that aphrodisiac smile that defines a POGI, there is also a need to consider the passion, the righteousness, the skills, the manliness and the attitude. Last night, I watched a Youtube Video entitled “Sino Si Ramon Bautista? (‘Yung Pogi). Then it came to me that being POGI is all about. In the video, Ramon Bautista was described as POGI not because he has the looks but moreover, because he helps the elderly, he cleans his own backyard, he cares about the environment, he studies and avoids bad vices, he is the law and he is a man who loves his country.

And that is what being POGI is really all about. The combination of the good looks, the awesome attitude and right principles makes a man more than just a man, but a one true POGI.

As a Young Leader, What Can You Do to Help Your Country?

by Radel Llagas

What is a young Leader? A young leader is a person that is in the process where he develops himself to be a better human being not only for himself but also to the people around him. Studying, training and preparing for the challenges and opportunities the future could offer.

A Young Leader doesn’t need or ask for any acknowledgements or rewards on every good thing that he have done, he will be simply happy and satisfied if he knew that he just helped or inspired people because of his good deeds or works.

I believe that every each of us is a leader. We are the leaders of ourselves.

So as one of the young leaders of our generation, I think we can help our motherland by simply inspiring our own countrymen. Inspiration has this power to move intellect and emotions of people, most likely, to influence. If people are positively inspired they can do anything happily, efficiently, and effectively. A job well done in work, a fine relationship with family and friends, a high grades in school, etc. All is well!

Now, how can I inspire people? I’ll inspire people by being diligent and persistent, by being nice and friendly, and by being thoughtful and mindful.

Diligence and persistence, I believe that these two attributes cannot be separatedfrom each other they’re partners, because you cannot be persistent if you’re not diligent and you cannot be diligent if you’re not persistent. To inspire and to be inspired you should be doing something that will benefit you and make the people around you happy.

Being nice and friendly doesn't always mean having long conversations with people you barely know. Just saying you like someone's shirts, or even just saying "hi" to someone can cause them to have a more positive attitude toward you, and maybe even inspire them. But you don’t have to always talk to inspire people. It's usually your actions that inspire people, not your words.

Being thoughtful and mindful likewise is not that tough if someone asks you a question or asks for help think about it before answering or doing anything this will keep you from saying or doing harsh things. Always think before doing anything.

To inspire people always go into things with good intentions and positive thoughts. Most likely, you'll be admired for your determination and, most likely, will do better. For example you lose in a basketball game with your team or have a bad day at school or work, try to go through it with a quiet smile and do better next time. Don't blame it all on yourself, nor should you blame it on anyone else. It will make you look the opposite of inspiring.

Of course be someone you'd want to be and don’t you ever fake it. In other words, be someone that you would enjoy being around. If you don't like how you act, chances are other people won't like you, either.

My resolve in helping my country which is to inspire is like an inductive approach in doing research or from specific-general approach or from using a few numbers of sample respondents then from them I will intend to generalize. First, I will dealt with few numbers of people who I already knew then hopefully will also inspire the people they knew, continue this process until all people in the country are all inspired.

Imagine if all people would be inspired. It can lead to oneness and success of the country because if the people are positively inspired they can do anything happily, efficiently, and effectively and if they have this attitudes there’ll be no troubles or difficulties. All is well!

Pick-Up Lines 101

by Jhuwen C. Balite

Wala ka bang magawa?

Baket?

Kasi… binabasa mo itong blog namen..

 BOOM!!

Since pilot article ko itong binabasa mo… dapat lang na explosive din yung nilalaman nito. Kaya naisip kong I feature sa unang article ko ang sumasabog sa pick-up lines. Paano nga ba mag bitaw ng pick-up lines at gaano din ito ka effective sa mga babae? Aalamin natin lahat ng iyan ngayon.

Sa pick-up lines may criteria rin tayong sinusunod para maging epektib sa pagsasabihan natin.

30% originality

20% creativity

50% impact

Yan ang criteria na sinusunod ng isang pick-up line. Sa originalty, mas maganda kung sarili mong gawa ang pick-up line mo… mas bago sa pandinig kaysa gumamit ka ng luma at gasgas ng pick-up lines sa tipo mong dilag. Kung susubukan mo ring gumamit ng mga “secondmouth” pick-up lines ay siguraduhin mong hindi pa naririnig nung babae yung pick-up line na yun, kundi ay ekis ka.

Sumunod naman ang creativity kung sariling gawa mo ang pick-up line na bibitawan mo. Dapat kakaiba at yung hindi maiiisip ng iba na pwedeng gawing pick-up line. For example; kaning baboy ka ba? O kaya ay piatos ka ba? Fudgee barr ka ba? Hahaha.. halatang gutom na ko habang sinusulat ko to at dahil sa nakikita ko yung paninda ng computer shop na to. Going back, kung gagawa ka man ng kakaibang pick-up line, siguraduhin mong mapapanindigan mo at mabibigyan mo ng justice yan kapag binitawan mo na. baka kasi kapag pumalpak, sisihin mo ako.. pepektusan kita kapag nangyari iyon.

Ang pangatlo at pinaka importanteng element na dapat nilalaman ng isang pick-up line ay ang “impact” ayan nakabold pa, baka hindi mo pa mapansin. Yan kasi ang madalas makalimutan ng marami sa atin. Dapat kapag nagsabi ka ng pick-up line, mapapa BOOM! Yung mga tao sa paligid mo, ksma na yung chick na pinagsabihan mo. Kasi kahit gaano pa ka orig at ka creative yang pick-up line mo, kung wala naming dating eh balewala din.

Siya nga pala, may nalimutan akong elemento. Para siguradong pumatok ang pick-up lines mo ay subukan mo ring umarkila ng back-up boys. 1% din siguro ang maitutulong nila sa pick-up line mo. Moral support ika nga.

O pano, hanggang ditto nalang muna.. balitaan nyo ko kung epektib ba. At kung hindi man. At least nalaman ko mula sa inyo bago ko subukan. haha. Joke lang.

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